The Power Between Your Ears: Creating a Life You Love by Brenda R. Bryan

It’s the five inches between my ears that give me the most trouble—and the greatest joy.

Have you ever wondered what the power of creation really means?

I’ve been fascinated by the power of imagination all my life—the ability to bring something into existence that didn’t exist until inspiration struck. But what does it take to create success and build a life you love? As Mary Morrissey asks:

“What does a person have to do to move from one set of results they’re not fulfilled with to a new set of results where they are deeply fulfilled?”

That question hit me hard when I was frustrated with my own progress. I was working with top coaches yet struggling to feel successful in my coaching business. Fear and lack had become subconscious patterns that kept me stuck. It wasn’t until I understood the concept that everything is created twice—first in thought, then in reality—that things began to shift.

What I hadn’t grasped was that 95% of our thoughts are preprogrammed. To change our results, we must become aware of what we’re thinking, the feelings those thoughts trigger, and how those feelings drive our actions. It’s a simple but profound truth:

The power to create the life you want is right there—between your ears.

 


 

Choosing to Create by Design, Not Default

So, how do we harness this power? It starts with making a choice—a choice to listen to the guidance that comes from within. Spirit speaks to us through our longings and discontents, urging us toward growth. The breath that keeps us alive is also the power that helps us design a life we love, but it’s up to us to take action.

Unfortunately, we’ve been conditioned by common-hour thinking—society’s rules about who we get to be. The noise from our upbringing, education, culture, and circumstances often drowns out our inner voice. To overcome this, you must become a Brave Thinker—someone who creates a vision and takes bold action despite objections and limitations imposed by the world around them.


 

Breaking Free from Limiting Patterns

For years, I unknowingly carried patterns of fear and low self-worth. These patterns made everything more complicated. I thought success had to come through struggle. But the truth is, it can be easy—if you choose to work with tools that reprogram your thinking and open you to new possibilities.

I’ve been studying transformational work for 40 years. The most significant change came when I found a proven, repeatable system that supported my heart’s desires. Now, I wake up more in love with my life each day, living from a vision rather than reacting to circumstances.


 

The Keys to Transformation

To create a life by design, three key components are essential:

  1. Vision:Decide to transform your life by shifting your thinking.
  2. Structure:Engage in a structure of support that nurtures your higher self.
  3. Coaching:Hire a coach to guide you through the journey of changing your mind and your results. You can’t do it alone; you would have already done it if you could.

In the Dream Builders Program, you’ll learn 5 tools and 10 transformational steps that will guide you on your journey of becoming. By applying these tools, you’ll create outcomes beyond what’s possible with common-hour thinking. You’ll become capable of achieving your dreams—and that’s the greatest reward.

 


 

What’s Next for You?

As you read this, I’m sure that inner voice—the five inches between your ears—is speaking to you. What beliefs are holding you back? Are you afraid to say yes to your desires? Are you waiting to figure out the “how” before deciding?

Here’s what I know: when you invest in your passion and commit to your vision, life begins to align in ways you never expected.

If you’re ready to explore what’s possible, join me for my next Dream Builders Workshop:

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This workshop will give you the tools, awareness, and inspiration to realize your dreams. You deserve a life that excites and fulfills you. Are you ready to claim it?


Brenda R. Bryan

Transformational Dream Builder Coach / Life Mastery Consultant

Diviner of Human Potential


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